Those who do not want to be helped want their reasons for hating the world to remain intact. That is their will. It is what they want. They want to keep seeing the same things and stumbling over the same stone. Since the Son of God is free, no one can force him to receive what he does not wish to receive.
We should be humble enough to understand this and let everyone follow their own path and learn at their own pace. After all, we ourselves are the ones who need to learn. We tend to want to remove someone else’s blindfold when we should be attending to our own. Arrogance is believing that one blind person can help another. We must first have understood and seen for ourselves. Those who want help ask for it, and those who have removed their blindfold can help. It is that simple.
We ourselves are the ones who must be free and happy. Nothing is achieved by glorifying sacrifice. God does not ask for sacrifices; God asks for Truth. If you do not fit, you do not fit. Do not insist. If they force you to be someone else, do not insist. If they do not accept you as you are, do not insist. Insisting on the impossible is arrogance.
To flow is to accept and acknowledge. Not everyone moves at the same pace, nor should they. It is up to you to recognise your own rhythm and where you naturally fit, for that is where you will be able to move forward without too much effort. You must respect your own nature because it shows you your own path. You achieve nothing by going against your nature or the colours you have been given. This makes perfect sense, because the puzzle that forms the forgiven world has to be assembled.