Our dear companion, the ego, is easily distracted, disorganised, and fearful. A focused mind is not controlling; it simply puts things where they belong. It organises itself and does not try to bend the will of others.
It knows that getting from A to B requires a series of steps. It does not live on illusions or self-deception. It knows that if it is heading towards B, it is because there is something there it clearly desires. It is so certain of what it seeks that it gladly pays the price in perseverance.
Those who rush fall into despair.
Those who rush do not watch their step.
Those who rush stumble.
Those who rush never reach safe harbour.